{"id":64821,"date":"2013-02-01T23:59:21","date_gmt":"2013-02-01T22:59:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandzakpress.net\/arhiva\/?p=64821"},"modified":"2013-02-01T23:59:21","modified_gmt":"2013-02-01T22:59:21","slug":"kako-pricate-sa-malisanima","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandzakpress.net\/arhiva\/kako-pricate-sa-malisanima\/","title":{"rendered":"Kako pri\u010date sa mali\u0161anima?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/sandzakpress.net\/arhiva\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/23-1_620x0.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-64822\" title=\"23 (1)_620x0\" src=\"https:\/\/sandzakpress.net\/arhiva\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/23-1_620x0-300x199.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" \/><\/a>Osje\u0107anja mogu da se poka\u017eu i kroz govor tijela, izraze lica, zagrljaje i  gestove, ali i rije\u010dima kojima djetetu treba staviti do znanja da je  voljeno i prihva\u0107eno<\/strong><\/p>\n<div>\n<p><span>Uspije\u0161na komunikacija proces je u  kom u\u010destvuju dvije osobe i nikada ne smije da bude jednostrana. Djeca je  usvajaju od  roditelja i jako je va\u017ena, jer uti\u010de na njihov odnos ne  samo sa roditeljima, ve\u0107 i sa svima u okru\u017eenju. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Ako  dijete dobro savlada vje\u0161tine komunikacije to \u0107e mu pomo\u0107i u pregovaranju,  rije\u0161avanju problema i u\u010denju od drugih, rezultat je istra\u017eivanja koje je  sproveo tim stru\u010dnjaka na Univerzitetu u Kaliforniji. Komunikacija je  na\u010din kojim djetetu roditelji prenose ljubav, prihvatanje, po\u0161tovanje i  odobravanje, hvale, ka\u017enjavaju, podsti\u010du dijete da izra\u017eava osje\u0107anja i  grade me\u0111usobno povjerenje, tvrdi doktorka Lin Eblgejt, vo\u0111a istra\u017eivanja  o razvoju komunikacijskih vje\u0161tina kod djece. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Tako, na primjer, davanje pohvale ne treba da se svodi  samo na obi\u010dne rije\u010di, ve\u0107 roditelji treba da se potrude da saznaju \u0161ta  njihovo dijete zaista misli o sebi i svom pona\u0161anju. Ako to razumeju,  zna\u0107e i kada treba da upute kritiku tako da je dijete na najbolji na\u010din  prihvati. Ako roditelji dosledno komuniciraju sa svojim djetetom, ono \u0107e  znati da oni o njemu imaju dobro mi\u0161ljenje i da mu \u017eele dobro. Na taj  na\u010din \u0107e uspijeti da uspostave prisan i kvalitetan odnos \u0161to \u0107e djetetu  pomo\u0107i da raste, razvija se i \u017eivi u skladu sa svojim mogu\u0107nostima. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Na\u017ealost, mnogi roditelji ne znaju kako da u djetetu probude osje\u0107aj da je prihva\u0107eno i po\u0161tovano. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>&#8211;  Djeca posti\u017eu mnogo vi\u0161e u \u017eivotu ako ne osje\u0107aju pritisak od strane  roditelja, odnosno ako ne moraju stalno da se bore za njihovo  prihvatanje i odobravanje. Umjesto da djetetu sude ili ga kritikuju, mnogo  je efikasnije da roditelji koriste pohvale. Zauzvrat, dijete \u0107e vi\u0161e  voleti samo sebe pa \u0107e tako da raste i njegovo samopo\u0161tovanje &#8211; ka\u017ee dr  Eblgejt. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Roditelji treba da se potrude da kroz  rije\u010di i djela, djetetu daju do znanja da je prihva\u0107eno. Osje\u0107anja mogu da se  poka\u017eu i kroz govor tijela, uklju\u010duju\u0107i i izraze lica, zagrljaje i  gestove \u0161to svakako treba da se potvrdi i rije\u010dima. Me\u0111utim, roditelji  \u010desto biraju neefikasan na\u010din verbalne komunikacije sa svojom djecom,  tvrdi doktorka Eblgejt. Na primjer, nare\u0111uju rije\u010dima &#8220;uradi\u0107e\u0161 to kako ti  ka\u017eem i nikako druga\u010dije!&#8221;, dr\u017ee predavanja &#8220;kada sam ja bio dje\u010dak, imao  sam mnogo vi\u0161e obaveza od tebe&#8221; ili pridikuju &#8220;nikada vi\u0161e ne smije\u0161 tako  da se pona\u0161a\u0161&#8221;. Neki roditelji najvi\u0161e komuniciraju putem kritike  &#8220;danas si sve pogre\u0161no uradila&#8221;, ismevanja &#8220;bio si mnogo smije\u0161an kada  nisi uspeo da da\u0161 ko\u0161&#8221; ili omalova\u017eavanja &#8220;pona\u0161a\u0161 se kao da ima\u0161 dva  mjeseca. U tim godinama, trebalo bi druga\u010dije da razmi\u0161lja\u0161&#8221;. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Kroz  na\u010din na koji razgovaraju sa djetetom, roditelji treba da mu poka\u017eu da  ga prihvataju ba\u0161 onakvim kakvo jeste. Tako\u0111e treba \u0161to \u010de\u0161\u0107e da ga  hvale, da ka\u017eu, na primjer, &#8220;odli\u010dno si rije\u0161io ovaj te\u017eak zadatak iz  matematike. Svaka \u010dast!&#8221;. Tako\u0111e, djetetu treba da daju do znanja i  koliko ga cijene zbog onoga \u0161to ono jeste. Mo\u017eete re\u0107i, recimo, &#8220;bio sam  tako ponosan dok sam te gledao na priredbi danas&#8221;. Isti efekat posti\u017ee  se i ako roditelji nau\u010de da slu\u0161aju svoje dijete dok govori, bez  intervencija, ispravki ili dopunskih komentara, zaklju\u010duje doktorka  Eblgejt.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>(Novosti)<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Osje\u0107anja mogu da se poka\u017eu i kroz govor tijela, izraze lica, zagrljaje i gestove, ali i rije\u010dima kojima djetetu treba staviti do znanja da je voljeno i prihva\u0107eno Uspije\u0161na komunikacija proces je u kom u\u010destvuju dvije osobe i nikada ne smije da bude jednostrana. Djeca je usvajaju od roditelja i jako je va\u017ena, jer uti\u010de [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":64822,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[807],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-64821","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-zivot"},"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v23.1 (Yoast SEO v24.9) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Kako pri\u010date sa mali\u0161anima?<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/sandzakpress.net\/arhiva\/kako-pricate-sa-malisanima\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"bs_BA\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Kako pri\u010date sa mali\u0161anima?\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Osje\u0107anja mogu da se poka\u017eu i kroz govor tijela, izraze lica, zagrljaje i gestove, ali i rije\u010dima kojima djetetu treba staviti do znanja da je voljeno i prihva\u0107eno Uspije\u0161na komunikacija proces je u kom u\u010destvuju dvije osobe i nikada ne smije da bude jednostrana. 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