{"id":56000,"date":"2012-11-29T23:22:00","date_gmt":"2012-11-29T22:22:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandzakpress.net\/arhiva\/?p=56000"},"modified":"2012-11-29T23:22:00","modified_gmt":"2012-11-29T22:22:00","slug":"izbjegavajte-raspravu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandzakpress.net\/arhiva\/izbjegavajte-raspravu\/","title":{"rendered":"Izbjegavajte raspravu"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>Mnoge dame sklone su tome da, kada se s ne\u010dim ne sla\u017eu, o tome raspravljaju, obja\u0161njavaju, pa se nekad i posva\u0111aju s osobom s kojom su se raspravljale. Premda je nekad neke stvari neophodno raspraviti, \u010desto mo\u017eete elegantno izbje\u0107i raspravu i jednostavno uraditi onako kako vi \u017eelite ili kako vi smatrate da je ispravno.<\/p>\n

Na primjer, neko vam uporno obja\u0161njava na koji na\u010din vi treba da \u017eivite. Ne treba da pu\u0161ite ni da pijete, treba da se hranite tako-i-tako, treba toliko-i-toliko da se kre\u0107ete i da vje\u017ebate, treba da se ispravite, a za\u0161to ne biste poku\u0161ale sa tim-i-tim poslom… Ukratko, neko vam se mije\u0161a u \u017eivot znatno vi\u0161e nego \u0161to vi to \u017eelite, bilo da se radi o osobi koju slabije poznajete, bilo da se radi o va\u0161oj ro\u0111enoj majci – po\u0161tujete vi svoju majku i volite je, ali ste sada odrasla osoba i nemate ni najmanju \u017eelju da slu\u0161ate pridike.<\/p>\n

S nekim stvarima koje vam ta osoba ka\u017ee se sla\u017eete, s nekima ne, a ono s \u010dime se apsolutno ne sla\u017eete jeste to da vama, odrasloj osobi, neko po pedeset puta ponavlja \u0161ta misli da vi sa svojim \u017eivotom treba da radite. I nervira vas \u0161to ta osoba tako postupa i po\u010dnete da se raspravljate s njom, da se ubje\u0111ujete, da joj obja\u0161njavate, poku\u0161avate da joj stavite do znanja da vam takvo njeno pona\u0161anje smeta, ona vam odgovara da vam pri\u010da veoma bitne stvari i da je to za va\u0161e dobro, i na kraju se ose\u0107ate jo\u0161 i vi\u0161e iznervirano, a ni\u0161ta niste postigle.<\/p>\n

Izbjegnite to. U redu je jednom re\u0107i nekoj osobi da vam odre\u0111eno njeno pona\u0161anje smeta. U redu je re\u0107i to i dvaput, nekad i triput, ali ako do tada ona ne prestane, zna\u010di da je uzalud govoriti joj to, uzalud je raspravljati se s njom. Ukoliko ne \u017eelite da nastavi da vas nervira tim svojim pona\u0161anjem, promjenite taktiku.<\/p>\n

Jedna mogu\u0107nost je da se sklonite od te osobe. Kad je daleko od vas i ne slu\u0161ate je, ne\u0107e vas ni nervirati; mo\u017ee svojoj ma\u010dki da dr\u017ei pridike ili da je ubje\u0111uje kako treba da se pona\u0161a, vas se to ne\u0107e ticati niti \u0107e vam smetati. Ukoliko je to neizvodljivo ili ne \u017eelite tako da postupite, poku\u0161ajte da se suzdr\u017eite od rasprave. Saslu\u0161ajte tu osobu onoliko koliko vam vrijeme i obaveze dopu\u0161taju, smje\u0161kajte se, klimajte glavom, odgovarajte ne\u0161to neodre\u0111eno, i potom sa svojim \u017eivotom radite ono \u0161to vi mislite da treba, radite onako kako vi umete, \u017eelite, mo\u017eete.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Mnoge dame sklone su tome da, kada se s ne\u010dim ne sla\u017eu, o tome raspravljaju, obja\u0161njavaju, pa se nekad i posva\u0111aju s osobom s kojom su se raspravljale. Premda je nekad neke stvari neophodno raspraviti, \u010desto mo\u017eete elegantno izbje\u0107i raspravu i jednostavno uraditi onako kako vi \u017eelite ili kako vi smatrate da je ispravno. Na […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":83,"featured_media":56001,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[807],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-56000","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-zivot"},"yoast_head":"\nIzbjegavajte raspravu<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/sandzakpress.net\/arhiva\/izbjegavajte-raspravu\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"bs_BA\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Izbjegavajte raspravu\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Mnoge dame sklone su tome da, kada se s ne\u010dim ne sla\u017eu, o tome raspravljaju, obja\u0161njavaju, pa se nekad i posva\u0111aju s osobom s kojom su se raspravljale. 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